How to support the student in your house through exam season.

How to support the student in your house through exam season.

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Like anything in life, feeling prepared, with the right mindset is half the battle

Exam season is looming, especially for those taking A level and GCSE mock exams. A stressful time for students and parents alike, especially during a pandemic when school life over the last 20 months has been so disjointed.. It really hasn’t been easy for parents and teachers as we try to help them navigate this time in their lives,


Many students feel the pressure really is on to hit those grades. In this blog, I’m sharing a guide to help you make a plan, ensuring the students in your home feel prepared and balanced as much as they can be.

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Enjoy the big outdoors, have a break from the book and get some fresh air, even if it’s only for 20 minutes.

Did you know that your diet and lifestyle can affect exam performance?


I believe the right nutrition and exercise plan can energise your mind and body to get you through revision time and sharpen your memory, improve concentration and boost confidence.
However, the wrong dietary and lifestyle choices can potentially put you at a disadvantage.

exam season, relaxing with a good book is always a good idea
Time to relax with a good novel is always a good idea.


Diet will have a huge effect on your body and mind, choose the wrong meals and you can become sluggish and tired, but if you give your brain the right fuel, you will be able to think quicker, have a better memory and have improved concentration.


The key to boosting your energy and keeping your concentration levels up are nutritious foods, water and oxygen.


Here are my top tips for success during exam season:

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Stay Away From Caffeine

Drinking energy drinks like Red Bull or high amounts of tea and coffee will give you a short burst of energy but will burn out and give you a sugar crash.

Try not to rely on the caffeine fix to get you through the regions and exams. Switch to a warming hot chocolate instead!

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Keep Your Body Hydrated

Herbal drinks and water hydrate your brain and encourages it to function at an optimum level, delivering nutrients to the brain and eliminating toxins.

Being hydrating is essential for concentration, clarity of thinking and mental alertness.

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Avoid Snacking On Junk Food and Ordering Takeaways

A lot of students can fall prey to this mistake because they are so busy revising they run out of time to buy and prepare food in advance, unlersas of course they are living at home!

A long exam is like a mental marathon so endurance is crucial and having the right diet is a no-brainer. I’ve shared some easy and yummy meals, that you can make in advance and keep in the freezer.

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Get a Good Night’s Sleep

Tempting as it is to cram a week’s worth of revision into one night is never a good idea. You’ll get much more benefit from a solid 8 hours’ sleep. The mor nerves we have, often the sleep becomes disturbed too. Here’s how to guarentee a good nights sleep, both parents and students alike!

Many students tend to study in their rooms, however if you are able to separate the study zone and the relaxing and sleep zone, the quality of the nights sleep is vastly improved.

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Exercise

Often when we feel stressed or overwhelmed, we feel we just don’t have the time to exercise. Having worked with clients, who felt the same for almost a decade, they all felt a huge benefit for taking some time out of their busy lives to get some training in. What’s more, they felt more productive too with improved memory! Win!

Exercise can help boost energy levels, clear the mind and relieve stress. Just 20 minutes of fresh air and exercise a day will boost your mood and concentration too.

A walk around the block can really make the world of difference – to all of us; parents and students alike. A walk and talk is always a good idea!

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Breathe..

I can totally appreciate that this time of our Teens lives can feel like it’s THE most stressful time for them. The last 20 months of extremely disturbed schooling due to the pandeamic, has been stressful for everyone..

Go easy…

That’s both parents and students!

Exam stress can be shown in many different emotions and behaviours.

Take time to talk; share how you are feeling… talking, tears and sharing emotions, nerves, worry, make all the difference. Please don’t keep the worry to yourself students!


Good luck and try not to stress too much. It will be OK…

I really hope this guide helps you and your students alike to navigate the exam season.

Let me know if these tips have helped you and also how the exams go. Join in the conversation over on my Instagram. We are all in this together!

Very best wishes as always,


Make Your Dreams Come True By Answering These Simple Questions.

Make Your Dreams Come True By Answering These Simple Questions.

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This blog is all about you! Let’s explore how to make your dreams come true by answering some simple questions.

Let’s discover what’s holding you back and how you can make that first move to unlocking the life you want.

If not now, then when? Grab a cuppa, your journal and a comfy spot – let’s go in!

If you were to write a list right now about what you would like your life to look like, what would be on it?

Take 5 minutes (or as long as you wish) to write down in your journal or notebook, everything you’d LOVE to be doing.

Don’t over think it.

Consider it almost like a wish list. You don’t need to think how it will happen, just simply what you would like your life to look like..

Sounds simple doesn’t it?

‘Rather than stifling enterprise, the pandemic has led to entrepreneurs creating new businesses in response to the crisis’

Dylan Jones-Evans, Business Live
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These last 20 months have thrown our worlds upside down and inside out. The way we live, work and travel have all changed.

Face to face interviews for jobs became a 10 minute video submission to the panel sharing what you could bring to the company.

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We worked from home, our childrens classrooms became the dining room table and we spent more time than ever online, connecting, communicating and evolving.

More than ever, we have become a world where we have had to adapt and craete a new way of living.

For many people I’ve had spoken to, it has bought a conversation of what has worked well for them during these strange times.

People have shared with me that they’ve felt that working from home has been better for them as the commuting times are non existant, therefore improving their quality of life. For some, it’s given them the nudge they needed to create their dream business or structure their home life balance a little better.

With this in mind what’s on your wishlist?

Maybe you’d like to start your own business.

Adopt.

Move the the country.

Write a book.

Overcome your biggest fear.

Find your body confidence..

Renovate a room in your home or maybe build your own home.

A dream might come true when you have your own home and a calm sitting room, blush pink sofa coffee table with a plant and soft throw

Whatever made your wish list, NOW is the time.

ASK YOURSELF: What’s holding you back from making your dreams a reality?

You may already know.

Perhaps you are thinking “nothing is holding me back” but don’t have exact clarity on where to start.

That’s OK.

Don’t tell me the sky’s the limit when there are footprints on the moon.

Imagine..

Imagine the thermometer in your home.

Set it to 21 degrees, guess what? Your home becomes a gorgeous 21 degrees – no more, no less.

Imagine if you set your personal thermometer to HIGH. You removed all the worry, self limiting beliefs and behaved that your wish had already become true.

What would you be doing?
What would your day look like?
What would you be wearing, feeling, saying?
Dreams come true with this stunning garden room, white with lots of greens plants of shelves
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Once you know the answers to these simple questions, you can start to make your dreams become true.

Really knowing what you’d like your life to look like and actually visualise, right down to the nitty gritty, what it would look like, that’s when the magic starts to happen1

Be bold, be brave and go for it!

”Happiness Is Not Something Readymade. It Comes From Your Own Actions.”

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More than anything, these last couple of years have taught us that nothing is certain and whilst that can be really scary. In some form it’s exciting..

Now really is the time to go for it.. make that jump, live that dream, because if not now – when?

It’s OK to make YOU a priority and create the live you wish to have.

I’d love to know how your attitudes and passions have changed. Please do join me on Instagram, where the conversation continues, with inspirational weekly mini missions which help you make life changes so your dreams come true.

Sending love and light, as always,

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How to plan effectively now, to help you achieve your home and life goals this Autumn.

How to plan effectively now, to help you achieve your home and life goals this Autumn.


In this weeks blog, I’m sharing my top tips to plan effectively so that you can prioritise more time for what’s important in your life, how I plan my diary and one very key lesson I learned years ago, which I still use today. 

How do you plan?
Are you an electronic diary kind of person or, like me, love to have a pretty planner..? Or several..?

Whilst this may seem excessive, I’m yet to find a planner that ticks all my boxes – so I use two or three. One for the home and my interiors projects, one for my Blogs and Missions and one for my Fitness and Wellbeing Goals including the “everyday” . The dream is to take all the aspects I love about the planners I use and add my own little spin. Wonder if you can guess what I’d add? Do you think if I make a wish, it might just happen..?

“The key is not to prioritise what’s on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities.”

Stephen Covey. 

I have used the diaries and calendar from Boxclever Press for years, in fact am sure I was one of their first customers the year they launched which coincided with me becoming a new mum. Writing the important things down is key to managing my time effectively.

I was delighted recently when they asked me to review their new academic diary and calendar for 2021 / 2022 and share with you how I use them and what works for me. These planners are as close to perfect as I can get. They have everything for me as a busy mum of teens and and help me plan my writing and goals effectively.

The new school term for me is a perfect time for a new focus, and yes with that, a new planner! There’s something about having a new pencil case and notebook to reignite the passion around your working life, home life and yes, planning the final quarter of the year, all whilst wondering how that time has passed so quickly!

The planning starts for me before the Autumn term begins. I’m not sure what it’s like in your house but as the school summer term finishes, my inbox starts to flood with fixtures and dates for the new term. As a swim mum, this includes swimming fixtures as the season runs from late August through to the following summer.

Getting everything in place from dates to labelling the school uniform, early in the school summer holidays, means I can relax that little bit more without too many shocks the week before the new school year begins! 


“Most of us spend too much time on what is urgent and not enough time on what is important.”

Stephen Covey

Look after the big rocks first.

The same year I became a first-time mum, I attended a Franklin Covey course on time and life management. There began my love for Stephen Covey’s 7 Habits for Highly Effective People. The biggest lightbulb moment was to look after the Big Rocks first.

The Big Rocks are the things in your life that are MOST important, they go in your planner first. It sounds a simple thing to do, but how many times when we are in the thick of life, we can revert to reactive living and not proactive. With a planner that works for you together with effective planning, life really does seem that much more manageable. 

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My Top Tips to Effective Planning:

Find a planner that works for you. it sounds really obvious but get to know it, spend time looking at all its functions so you are able to use it to your best advantage.

Put the big rocks in first, including YOU time – book it like an appointment. You wouldn’t miss you appointmentt for your car to have an MOT.  Book them in for you too! Easier said than done I know, however practise makes perfect! 

Create a system; with pens, stickers, whatever works for you to highlight the important appointments and fixtures that matter.

Create time for a Power of an Hour each day. Having focused time to work on ONE thing, working with intention and without distraction, it’s incredible what you can achieve.

Fail to Plan, Plan to Fail! It’s the little things that have a huge effect on the big things, so simple but true. So plan ahead – if you’re planning on working out first thing in the morning, prepare ahead by getting your kit ready the night before. 

Consider how you can limit any stresses that come your way. What do you need in place to limit any stresses that may come your way? As a stationary lover, having a box of birthday and celebration cards to hand is always helpful with children in the house. 

Each Sunday, I spend a little time getting prepared for my week ahead. This involves looking at my planner, doing a diary check with the family. Adding and taking out what can help and hinder the week ahead. I confirm my workouts, plan the weekly menu, including the shopping list and print my Consistency Checklist for the week ahead.  I’ve created some free downloads which might help you.

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Consistancy Checklist and Planner

“You have to decide what your highest priorities are and have the courage—pleasantly, smilingly, non-apologetically, to say “no” to other things. 

Stephen Covey.

Let’s be real.

Trying to plan effectively and having systems in place, are all well and good, but let’s be honest and realistic for a moment, life happens! We can plan for most things, yet curveballs can occur which will send us out of kilter. We’ve certainly learned that in the last year haven’t we?

We all know that it is how we respond to these circumstances that matter so please be kind to yourself. If you drop the ball, that’s ok.  I truly hope that sharing some of the things that work for me, help you too. Be kind to yourself and put things in place that work for you.


Sending love as always,