How To Have Supper Without The Stress..

How To Have Supper Without The Stress..

I’m not sure how it is in your house, but our Dining Room has become a real focal point each evening. It’s when we all gather and sit down to enjoy a family meal, we chat about the day, the good, the bad and everything in-between!

It might sound very Waltons Family (google that if you’re a little stuck, I’m showing my age!) Like breakfast times, supper time can be a stressful part of the day.. Lockdown has made us focus more on looking forward to this part of the day.

In normal life, we don’t normally all get to eat together much of the time. Having two teenage swimmers in the family means that we are usually driving to and from training and food is eaten en-route! Oh the glamour! Chilly Food Tubs have been my lifesaver during the swim runs!!

“Some of the most important conversations I’ve ever had, have occurred at my family’s dinner table.”

Bob Ehrlich.

I love to cook during the day when I’m taking a break from the desk or when the children are having their lunch break from home schooling – it makes such a difference! “Cook Now, Eat later” a motto I’ve taken on wholeheartedly from Mary Berry.

There is now no crazy supper time as I’ve cooked ahead and simply reheated or defrosted from the freezer.. What a difference it makes!  I thought I’d share a few of the favourites we’ve been enjoying of the last few weeks.

Thai Pork Curry.

This is my sons current favourite, adapted from a Mary Berry recipe. I’ve added red pepper and switched in button mushrooms from chestnut mushrooms and added French fine beans.

Ingredients: 
700g pork fillet, cut into fine strips 
2-3 tablespoons red Thai curry paste 
2 tbs oil 
2 large onions thinly diced. 
1 tablespoon plain flour 
1 x 400ml can coconut milk 
2 tabs fish sauce 
200g chopped mushrooms 
200g fresh fine beans  
1 red pepper cut into strips 
juice and finely grated zest of 1/2 lime 
chopped fresh parsley or coriander 
salt and freshly ground black pepper 





Method: 

?  Marinate the pork in 1 tbs of the curry paste for 30 mins. 

?  Heat the oil in a large pan, add the onions and cook gently for approx 10 minutes until they are tender. Lift the options out onto a plate. 

?  Increase the heat, brown the pork (this might have to be done in 2 batches) Remove the pork from the pan and return the onions with 1-2 tbs red Thai curry paste and the flour. Stirring well, add the coconut milk, fish sauce, mushrooms, pepper and beans.  

?  Bring to the boil, cover and cook gently for about 5 minutes, until the pork and sauce are just boiling and the beans are cooked but still crunchy. 

 Just before serving, add the lime juice and zest, plus lots of parsley or coriander. taste for seasoning and serve with rice.  


Scampi Provencal

This recipe has been in the family for years and adapted along the way.. here’s the current adaptation.

1 red pepper

1 green pepper

1 clove of garlic

1 onion

1 tablespoon tomato puree

1 teaspoon dried oregano 

1 tin chopped tomatoes

350g Prawns (I tend to use giant cooked prawns)

Method:

? Chop peppers, onion garlic and soften in a pan.

? Sprinkle in dried oregano, chopped basil and season with salt and pepper.

? Add the tin of tomatoes and prawns, mixing well, before adding the tomato puree.

? Pop the lid on and simmer for 10 or so minutes, until piping hot.

? Serve with rice and salad or Ciabatta bread.

The best bit – prepare ahead.

This recipe works really well hot or cold, so can be cooked ahead of time, simply reheating if required before serving. It also freezes well, so freeze once cooled and allow to defrost overnight.

Prawn Linguine – Jamie Oliver

This is a super easy supper recipe, it’s best prepared and served immediately.

350g Dried Linguine
1 Fresh red chilli
(4 Anchovy Fillets – we don’t add these)
1 Good pinch of ground cinnamon
1 pinch of saffron
360 g raw peeled prawns
2 cloves of garlic
500g passata
1 Lemon
30g Parmesan Cheese
A couple of sprigs of fresh basil

? Put the water for the pasta in a sauce pan on to boil.


? Finely chop the chilli and put in a deep frying pan with the anchovy (if using and some of it’s oil. Turn up the heat.


?Add the cinnamon, saffron and prawns.


? Squash in the unpeeled garlic with a garlic crusher, add the passata and bring to the boil.


? Strain the pasta when it is ready and add it to the sauce.
Transfer to hot dishes to serve and add seasoning, lemon juice, grated parmesan and chopped basil leaves.

Serves it with a side salad and crusty bread. not open for the freezer but it’s super quick to make and tastes delicious..

Jools Chicken Curry – Jools Oliver

A super simple, yet delicious meal from Jools Oliver. We have cooked this again and again and has now been christened Mums Chicken Curry, sorry Jools!

Ingredients

1 onion 

4cm piece of ginger 

2 cloves of garlic 

olive oil 

2 tablespoons tikka masala paste 

3 tablespoons natural yoghurt 

2 tablespoons tomato purée 

8 skinless free-range chicken thighs 

1 x 400 g tin of chopped tomatoes 

1 x 400 g tin of green lentils 

1 x 400 g tin of light coconut milk 

2 handfuls of baby spinach , optional 

2 tablespoons quality mango chutney

Method

? Peel and slice the onion. Peel the ginger and garlic, then finely chop or grate them on a microplane. 

? Heat a lug of oil in a large pan over a medium heat, add the onions and cook for around 8 minutes, or until softened and slightly golden, stirring regularly. Add the ginger and garlic cook for a further 2 minutes.

? Meanwhile, mix the tikka masala paste, yoghurt and tomato purée together in a bowl. Halve and add the chicken thighs to the bowl. Stir everything together and get all the chicken covered in the paste mixture. 

? Scrape everything into the pan, making sure you get all the paste mixture in there. Cook the chicken for 5 minutes or so, or until you see it start to colour.

?Add the tinned tomatoes, drained lentils and coconut milk. Bring to the boil, reduce the heat and simmer for 1 hour, stirring occasionally. Add splashes of water to loosen, if needed. 

? When the time’s up, stir in the spinach (if using) and allow it to wilt. Next add the mango chutney and taste for seasoning. 

? Pull the chicken apart with forks and stir it through. Serve with wholemeal basmati rice and yoghurt on the side, if you like.

Tips

For babies and toddlers, leave out the seasoning. Allow to cool, then chop and/or mash to the desired consistency.

Italian Chicken – Mary Berry

A super simple, supper dish and yes.. it’s an adapted Mary Berry recipe and yes you can make in advance and freeze too!! 

Ingredients:

123 chicken thighs, skin removed, bone in.

1-2 tablespoons olive oil 

2 large onions, roughly chopped

2 large garlic cloves, crushed 

2 tablespoons plain flour 

300ml (1/2 pint) chicken stock 

2 tablespoons white wine vinegar

190g olive and tomato sauce (such as Scala Olive & Tomato.

Freshly chopped parsley, lots!

Method:

? Season the chicken thighs with salt and pepper.

? Heat the oil in a large pan and fry the onions and garlic for a few minutes. cover with a lid and cook gently for about 20 minutes until the onions are tender.

? Sprinkle in the flour and mix well. Draw to one side and add the stock, stirring. Return to the heat and bring to the boil. Allow to thicken, adding the white wine vinegar, and season with salt and pepper.

? Add the chicken to the pan and bring back to the boil. Cover the pan and cook over a gentle heat for 20-30 minutes (turning the chicken once) until the chicken is tender. Cut into a thigh with a sharp knife to ensure juices run clear. If still bloody, continue to cook until juices run clear.

? Stir in the whole jar of the olive and tomato sauce and heat until piping hot. Check the seasoning. If the sauce is a little thick, add a little more stock or water.

? Scatter with fresh parsley and serve with basmati and wild rice or tagliatelle and a green salad.

The best bit – to Prepare ahead:
Complete to the end of step 5,24 hours ahead. Cool quickly, cover and refrigerate. Reheat carefully, gently stirring, in a pan on the hob until piping hot. Or reheat in the oven preheated to 200C/ 400F / gasn6 for about 30 minutes. Add a little stock or water if the sauce is thick.

To freeze: 
Freezes well. Cool the cooked chicken quickly and freeze in a freezer container for up to 3 months. Thaw for about 6 hours at room temperature or overnight in the fridge.


To cook in the Aga: 
Cook the onions, covered, in the Simmering Oven for about 20-30 mins until tender. Use the boiling plate for stage 3. For stage 4, use the roasting oven for about 10 minutes, and then to the simmering oven for a further 10 minutes, or until chicken is cooked.

“If you have a family that loves you, a few good friends, food on your table and a roof over your head – you’re richer than you think.”

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All these meals have all been big hit in our house and I really hope they’ll be a big success in your home too. Let me know which ones you try and which you”l be adding to your regular menu…  


Have a great weekend, stay happy and healthy,

Love


  

How Full Is Your Stress Bucket?

How Full Is Your Stress Bucket?


It’s been a little while since I’ve shared a blog post here and I’m so happy to be back. As part of relaunching Woman on a Mission, I’m revisiting some of my most-loved posts ~ refreshed, re-edited and more relevant than ever. With International Stress Awareness Week in mind, I thought it was the perfect time to check in on how full your stress bucket might be and share some practical ways to manage it. Over the last few weeks on my Instagram, I’ve been sharing the importance of removing things from your plate before piling on new commitments, whether that’s a new project, extra responsibilities, or even just the stress of the approaching festive season.

So, let’s talk about how to gently rebalance and refill your self-love bucket, even when life feels overwhelming.

The good news? We can refill our self-love bucket, even in the middle of chaos, by paying attention to our lifestyle choices and carving out little pauses.

Here are my friendly, practical tips to help keep that stress under control:

“I’m presently experiencing life at a rate of several WTF’s per hour!”

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I saw this quote and it made me laugh out loud.. Don’t underestimate the power of a good laugh, even in stressful times.

consistency checklist to help stop the stress bucket

Your Next Step

If you’d like more tips on reducing stress, simplifying your home and creating space to breathe, subscribe to Woman on a Mission or follow along on Instagram for weekly inspiration.

Feeling inspired to take charge of your stress and refill your self-love bucket? Try out the tips in this blog, track your habits with my Consistency Tracker and let me know how you’re getting on in the comments below.

One thing that is magical for your mental health..

One thing that is magical for your mental health..

One thing that’s magical for your mental health and that is setting boundaries. This weeks Blog discusses how to set boundaries and the benefits to your mental health and well-being.

Over time what we deem to be “OK”, gets blurred.

On occasions the we are treated or spoken to by work colleagues, friends and even our partners can cause upset, yet the need to do something about this situation may be delayed as you worry about the repercussions, regardless of how this makes you feel on a daily basis.

 

 

It’s no secret that I love Brene Brown’s work and her research on boundaries is amazing. (She’s one person I’d love to meet & have on my Dinner Party Wishlist!) Brené Brown studies human connection — our ability to empathize, belong, love. She’s funny and shares a deep insights from her research in her many books. Research that sent her on a personal quest to know herself as well as to understand humanity.

 

Maybe you run your own business and the boundaries around your working hours have become blurred, meaning that you’re trying to juggle work and home life, whilst going the extra mile for your clients..

setting Boundaries are magical for your mental health.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Whatever your situation is, being mindful that creating boundaries of what’s OK and not OK can have such a powerful effect.

 

Mini Mission

 

 

Join me on a mini Mission. Grab your journal or notebook and consider a situation that is causing upset and worry to you in your life. How does that situation make you feel? Have you thought about setting clear boundaries. Read on for how to resolve the issue.

 

 

I’m not as sweet as I used to be, but I’m far more loving”

 

Brene Brown

 

 

 

 

They say if you want something doing, ask a busy person! Yet, how often to we feel ourselves saying yes to something when really your head is screaming “no!!”

 

 

Why?

 

 

When your default setting is to help out, It’s not easy saying no, it makes us feel guilty or judged. . Yet by saying yes, you know that it will be adding more to your plate, causing increased stress, resentment and maybe even a sleepless night or two..

 

 

 

 

So how do we fix this?

 

 

Brene Brown shared her top three tips on how to create your boundaries: (direct quotes)

 

 

Make a mantra. I need something to hold on to—literally—during those awkward moments when an ask hangs in the air. So I bought a silver ring that I spin while silently repeating, “Choose discomfort over resentment.” My mantra reminds me that I’m making a choice that’s critical for my well-being—even if it’s not easy.

Keep a resentment journal. Whenever I’m marching around muttering cuss words under my breath, I grab what I lovingly refer to as my Damn It! Diary and write down what’s going on. I’ve noticed that I’m most resentful when I’m tired and overwhelmed— i.e. not setting boundaries.

Rehearse. I’ll often say, to no one in particular, “I can’t take that on” or “My plate is full.” Like many worthwhile endeavours, boundary setting is a practice.

I find this really powerful and wonder if you do too?

 

 

setting Boundaries are magical for your mental health.

 

 

 

Like a candle or rose petal, our wellbeing and mental health is delicate, something that should be treasured. If looked after well, it will give you years of joy and happiness. If you fail to look after the little things, setting boundaries, being kind to yourself, then they will in turn become bigger things and eventually your mental health and well being will suffer.

 

“Compassionate people ask for what they need. They say no when they need to, and when they say yes, they mean it. They’re compassionate because their boundaries keep them out of resentment.”

Brene Brown

setting Boundaries are magical for your mental health.

I love these mantras and have over the years, integrated them into my daily life.. Not easy, it takes practice, but remember every time you say “yes’ to someone else, you are saying “no” to you.

Writing your boundaries down is really powerful, it cements the “why” and as Brene says, what’s OK and what’s not OK.

If you have 5 minutes, take a look at Brene’s famous TedTalk that I believe you’ll love..

I’d love to know your thoughts about this one thing that’s magical for your mental health. Will you be joining me in this Mission of setting boundaries? Let me know in the comments below.

Feel free to share with a friend who you think would love this Mission too.  Furthermore, I’d love you to subscribe to receive my blog straight to your inbox.

With love

What Is The Magical Power of an Hour?

What Is The Magical Power of an Hour?

Let me introduce you to a tool that’s helped me (and so many of my clients) find clarity, focus, and motivation — the Power of an Hour.

It’s beautifully simple: one hour of focused time dedicated to a single mission or task. No distractions. No pressure to be perfect. Just progress.

Maybe you have a mountain of things to do and don’t know where to start.Or perhaps it’s just one task, but it feels so big, you’ve overthought it into paralysis.

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Here’s How To Use The Power Of An Hour:

Why It Works?

Putting gentle urgency around your Mission helps you focus and get results. You’ll be amazed how much you can do in 60 distraction-free minutes. For a deeper dive into mindfulness and staying present, I highly recommend The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. You can find it here on Amazon

“The Power of an Hour is such a help to me as I can’t physically do as much as I used to do. The Power Hour is such a string and positive name, it doesn’t make you feel feeble that you can only manage an hour!! Thanks for sharing, it’s been life changing for my husband and I”

Alice

That’s completely fine! Even 20 or 30 minutes of focused time can make a huge difference. Sometimes it’s not the task itself that’s hard, it’s getting started.

Some Ideas To Get Your Started:

Have a long soak in the bath with a good book..

Call a friend you’ve been meaning to catch up with.

Get outside for a walk in the the fresh air.

Whatever you decide to do with your Power of an Hour:

What will you do with your next Power of an Hour?

I’d love to know, join in the conversation on my Instagram, Facebook or comment below.

Feel free to tag me into your #powerofanhour and use this hashtag! I’d love to know how you find using this simple tool and what an effect it has on your daily life and routine.

Stay happy and healthy,